Gilbert said that if he outlives me he is going to arrange to have my body wheeled in to the funeral 20 minutes late as a joke. I don't want to do the body-at-the-service thing so that might put a cramp in his plans...I told him he could set up a photo of me 20 min. late or start a video (if I ever make one) of me addressing people at my funeral (We had a pastor who died of cancer and his video was the thing I enjoyed the most---One last time to see him and hear his thoughts and humor... )
Plus I'd love to have a full choir sing and maybe a band---now what significant thing do I need to accomplish to warrant/earn that? I also thought it would be neat if the reception after the service all the odds n ends of party goods I have (napkins from my wedding/plates from kiddie b'days, etc.) were used for refreshments. For my kids I would hope some of those would bring back some of the best memories---themed birthday parties, special events, etc. I would love it if people went home feeling just a little odd because it seemed more like a party than a "funeral". I hope my life ends up being a reason to celebrate that I was here, my last opportunity to share my favorite things and near/dear thoughts rather than mourning the "what ifs" or apathy or a gossipy gawk fest. If I get hit by a Mack truck unexpectedly the whole thing will probably not come together unless I task Ann with it now....hmmm....
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